“The elegy began as an ancient Greek metrical form and is traditionally written in response to the death of a person or group,” explains the Academy of American Poets. “The elements of a traditional elegy mirror three stages of loss. First, there is a lament, where the speaker expresses grief and sorrow, then praise and admiration of the idealized dead, and finally consolation and solace.” The following examples from JSTOR build on that tradition.
“Elegy Ending with a Cell Door Closing,” Reginald Dwayne Betts
“You Were You Are Elegy,” Mary Jo Bang
“The Boy Died In My Alley,” Gwendolyn Brooks
“Photograph of Delmore Schwartz,” Jean Valentine
“Finding Something,” Jack Gilbert
“Fortune,” Elizabeth Alexander